“That’s not fair”

When we say this, we might not be as accurate in our description of the situation as we believe. Perhaps we mean, “that’s not what I was hoping for.” Or we might mean, “if you knew how hard I worked, you would have made a different decision.” Possibly, we mean, “if you understood the world […]

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